Sorry some didn't know what I meant by POA...
POA is...Power of attorney!
My uncle and aunt keep boasting they are POA over EVERYTHING!!!!
my cousin on my dad's side was POA of our grandmother. He handled everything!
My mom apparently gave them ( according to them) POA over everything!
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WE do know where our mom is they finally told us!
BUT we are not on the vistitors list! :(