I had it out with david friday night (5-15-09)! I told him to step up and be a dad! After Brent pushed me, while get out of his dad's van. his reply? Honest to God , his reply! "I am a dad every other weekend!"
he is the biggest jerk ever! we had it out in the drive way... it brought the neighbors out!
and believe it or not the new wife was agreeing with almost everything I said to him!
it just blows me away that he said that though! "I am a dad every other weekend!" So does that mean since he when has the kids on his weekend (only because I begged him) I am not a mom on his weekend?
he also told Brent after Brent told him he NEEDED shoes , David told him "If your good I will buy you shoes!" this coming from a butthead who has not paid support since Jan!!!! well EXCUSE ME he paid one month... he is still behind 3 months... so what he did pay last month does not count!
my neighbors asked if his wages were "garinshed" I said "NO he is self emplyed, he has to pay out of the goodness of his heart!"
Oh wait he has no heart was my response!!!
from what the kids tell me the second wife was putting him in his place from the get go! I should of done that from day one! BUT I was being the "bible wife" . And bending over backwrds to please my husband! I was shocked though that she was agreeing with me with the things I was finally telling him after 19 yrs!
NOW I just feel like crying! you've seen pictures of my kids! how can he deny them like that? how can any man do that to their kids! ANYONE can be a sperm donor! it takes a REAL man to be a dad!
Now I just want to cry how can he deny his own flesh and blood, Things are been nuts here. I have day care kids here every day from 6 to 6 and then my kids. No time to breath! Been having a lot of trouble with Brian and Brent. I feel like I am losing control of them! And their dad is of no help! I just don't get how he can do and say what he does, I don't get it.
I just feel like I can't take my kids any where any more, they act out so bad!
David still has not paid child support and now we have a court hearing date set for the 29th of May! He has only paid 2 months of support this year!
I sure could use some prayers , we need all the prayers we can get. Maybe for the boys to start listening again, and for David to step up and help parent! When I asked him to step up and be a dad and help out, he told me "I am a dad every other weekend!" WHAT? I am a mom 24/7. How is he only a dad every other weekend? Brian is so hurt and upset over how his dad treats him, I think that has a lot to do with why Brian is acting out, But David doesn't get it, instead he tells people I am a bad mom. He just loves to shift the blame. My heart breaks for my kids! He picks favorites and has the balls to say I am a bad mom!
OH and his weekends this yr? can be counted on one hand! He took them the weekend of 1-11-09, 2-21-09 and May 15,09.
ANY EXCUSES FOR HIM NOW??? "She'll" probably come up with one "She" e-mailed me one from my last post! Wish I could block ONLY "her" instead of going private!