Some people believe that your destiny is already laid out for you and good or bad, no matter what you do, it finds you. People also believe in soul-mates. that one person that was made for you that you are meant to be with no matter how bumpy the road is getting to him. I guess that’s what I believe.
Not sure if a person can have more then one soul mate though? I thought I met mine many yrs ago, BUT I chose another path and let him go! I still think of him now and then and think what if? Our paths did cross again not to long ago and well lets just say I remember WHY I took the path I did, even though that path didn't have a happy ending either...
I do believe in putting myself out there and always being open to receiving love because I believe that the one who is meant to be mine will find his way to me when we are both open and ready for it. I also believe that I have to kiss a lot of toads before I find my prince so that I can be more appreciative of the love that I find in him and that I learn from every experience good or bad. I also think that everything that happens; happens for a reason and each experience—good or bad—brings you a step closer.
it did take me a while to learn this, BUT once I did I became a happier person. My gaurd is still up. BUT it's not under lock and key like it once was!
Lifes lesson, live and learn... keep what works , get rid of what doesn't or tweek it to make it better!
my favorite word is
Serendipty... you know the effect by which one accidentally discovers something fortunate, especially while looking for something entirely unrelated.
one day at a time - this is enough. Do not look back and grieve over the past , for it is gone, and do not be troubled about the future, for it has not yet come' Live in the present and make it so beautiful it will be worth remembering!
Ida Scott taylor