The very thing that you feel is going to destroy you may be the thing that will make you, and what you feel may be the end of you, may well be the beginning.
Saturday, January 5, 2013
WOW... Maybe this might work?
Brian came home this morning. His step mom brought him over to get more clothes. So while he was gathering his stuff he needed her and I actually had a decent chat ( I really thought I hated that women for wrecking my family). BUT her and I actually spoke nicely to each other and she totally agrees with what I did. I told her I tried calling Brian's dad on Tuesday for help told her he told me he would call me back but never did. She said "that surprises you?" I told her how every time I need help with the kids he is never there for me. She said she knew and was always after him about that. She sees the favoritism too and doesn't like it, she said his parents do the same thing so he learned what he lived.
At first I wasn't going to talk to her but then I decided to and I am glad I did.
I told her I don't know what Brian told you but there are 2 sides to every story and here is mine....
When I was done telling her she said she agreed with what I did. That I did the right thing.
She told me he can stay there 3 days then he has to find some where else to go.
While he is there though he has to look for a job. I told her I was trying to make him look for one but he seems to think I am one big joke.
So I am thinking maybe it is time to bury the axe with her and band together and help Brian even if his own dad won't.